The way we respond to problems will determine how strong you become from them. Strong people are people who have allowed their suffering and heartache to make them stronger and more resilient.
Want to know how to make your problems serve you and not crush you? Accept and be with the pain of your problem because the more you struggle with the reality of your problem, the more energy will be sucked out of you.
If you can accept the reality of your problem you can use it as an opportunity to strengthen your character.